I had the pleasure of meeting Boyd Melson as a six-year-old in my First Grade Class. He made a wonderful impression on me and his many fine qualities were quickly apparent. He was also chosen to be United States President in a grade play titled “Mr. President.” Boyd took on the role in a most responsible and dedicated manner. He continued to excel in all academic areas as well as to show his classmates kindness whenever he saw the need. Even in first grade he demonstrated excellent work and moral ethics. The years moved on, and I was happy to hear that Boyd was attending West Point. I was honored that he chose me, amongst others, to write a reference letter on his behalf upon entering the prestigious Academy. One day Boyd visited my class and engaged my kindergarten students in a wonderful discussion. He happily answered their questions and showed them the proper way to salute. He was so enthusiastic that my students were talking about him for weeks with such excitement. Years later I received a phone call from Boyd saying he would love to visit me. While catching up on past years, I was quite impressed with all that Boyd accomplished, with his military service, and his community work. He became passionate about helping with spinal cord injury research, started a foundation to raise money for this worthy cause, and donated the money he earned from his boxing career. He helped Steve Harvey with his Mentorship Camp for children being raised only by their mothers. He went to various venues as an inspirational speaker and was interviewed several times. Suicide, addiction, and opioid use, became other areas that Boyd addressed. Boyd’s dedication to community life and his desire to make a difference stand out and speaks to his exceptional character. Boyd’s thirst for learning and his desire to be the best he can be, while also aiding humanity, are very impressive and strong virtues.

As Boyd’s teacher and friend, I am so proud of him. Two weeks ago my husband passed after months of enduring multiple medical issues. As one can imagine, I was and still am very stressed, overwhelmed and sad. When Boyd found out about Neil’s passing, he instantly took on a role beyond his years, essentially helping Coach me through this dreadfully painful experience. He called several times, sent helpful, compassionate and meaningful texts, and offered to help me with anything I needed. He asked about my health, my emotions, my needs, and how I was coping. He shared perspectives that somehow brought light to me while I was in a very dark place. I could feel his love as if he were next to me. He listened and spoke about my feelings in a very caring manner, calmed my fears and worries, and offered to be there for me at all times. Boyd’s ability to be a patient, attentive listener, his warm and caring manner, and his eagerness to be available and helpful, all make him the perfect life coach. Boyd’s wisdom in his thinking, and his compassionate interactions with those in need, is what it takes to be an effective life coach, one that’s easy to talk to and confide in. His being a life coach benefits so may in a most professional, caring and positive manner.